The Too Hard and Too Soon Phase of Dating .

The Too Hard and Too Soon Phase of Dating .

If you have been single for some time, you know what it feels like. You have thought about being in a relationship and maybe even exchanged some passionate moments. However, all your efforts did not pay off  now you are hurting. It also feels like you are giving yourself to someone who has no intentions of coming back. At this point, most people would think that the best thing to do is to get rid of whatever has happened and find another person to love.

The problem with this is that it will be too late for you to get over this. You will always feel the pain and once you have ended it, finding someone new will not be easy. Therefore, the best thing to do before getting into a new relationship is to get over your ex.

For those who know me well, I usually work on the theory that hard work tends to bring good results. Therefore, the more you work on your problem, the better it is going to work in your favor. Many people have used my method with varying degrees of success. However, there has been no writings or manual that graph out exactly how to get over a breakup.

What I can say is that everyone has their own ways and methods of getting over a breakup. The beauty about this is that no matter what I did, it seemed to work in different ways for different people. Then again, what you need to do is get out of your house and talk to someone. The next time you feel like jumping from your chair, stop yourself because that is a silly thing to do.

The next time you see a beautiful girl, stop your efforts on improving your skills on getting over and opening yourself up to love. Instead, take that same amount of time and give your self a total makeover. Take your time in improving your looks and your personality and leave it at that.

This will benefit you greatly when it comes to finding a guy because they definitely would want to be around someone who is interesting, exciting and comfortable being themselves. Being simple is the greatest key to finding a guy and you do not have to make yourself seem complex.

Just be your comfortable self and I guarantee that you will be able to improve your skills in dating. Whatever you do, avoid being fake because pretending to be interested will not work for long. Eventually the guy will find out who you are and what you are all about.

Before I met my special someone, I was lonely and looking for meaning in life. I was completely over a breakup and looking for any chance to find happiness again. I used online dating to meet Mr. Right. He was one of the lucky ones who saw my posting and decided to respond. At first, he was just a stranger but I became friendly because we spent time together. Soon enough, we had a great life, but I did not realize how great I had it until he left for marry.

If I could teach you one thing about men, it would be that men want someone who is sincere and can be gentle. Men want someone that they can trust and have a good talk with. Do not sound nervous when you write him and do not overdo things. Just be yourself and remember that the right guy will come along when you are ready.

To my dear single ladies out there, always remember that not all men are bad. I am telling you this because I know that you do not want to give that good hard time to a guy that is in sincere about getting to know you. My guide as a guy is that you should let them do their job. Listen to them. Try to find out what they want and help them get it. Even if you do not have any idea what they are talking about, then you have to listen anyway because at least you will know more about something.

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